Domestic Violence - 7 Controlling Behaviors That Cause Emotional Pain

Are you living with a controlling partner who wants you to dump your family and friends? Learn the characteristics of an abuser and escape before you become a victim of Domestic Violence.
1. What you wear.
When you started dating, your partner complimented your clothing choices, but after you’ve dated a time or two he tells you that shirt makes you look fat. You look like a whore in those jeans. Or he just doesn’t like anything you wear.
2. Punishes disobedience.
Your partner finds ways to punish or threaten you if you don’t do exactly what he tells you to do. He gets angry and acts out when you don’t do what he wants, and is sweet and affectionate when you follow his ‘suggestions.’ (Are you his dog, getting a treat for behaving the way he demands?)
3. You’re crazy.
He tells you you’re crazy or need ‘help’ if you disagree with him. He makes you think it’s all you, when you feel a need to confront his bad behaviors. He’s perfect, you’re the one with issues and problems.
4. Empty promises.
He doesn’t keep his word, always makes it sound like you’re the one who failed. He’s late because you told him the wrong time, or you gave him the wrong directions. He didn’t get you a gift because you didn’t tell him what you wanted, becomes his excuse.
5. Double standard.
He doesn’t want you talking to your ex, but he calls his ex every weekend. You can’t go out with friends and family, but he leaves you home on the weekends waiting for him while he goes out with his family and friends. Or, he takes you with him and leaves you sitting in the corner wondering why you came.
6. Blames you.
It’s your fault he treats you bad, you didn’t make him want to treat you good. He missed a promotion because he was worried about you flirting with his co-worker. He feels like you don’t care about him, because you don’t do everything he tells you to do.
7. Uses you.
Expects you to support him, drive him everywhere, buy him games and toys instead of getting a job. He spends your money on video games and plays them all day instead of looking for a job like he promised, then tells you that he needed a ride to look for a job.
Are you tired of feeling like a joy stick? You don’t need a controller. Assert your independence and step out of the path of abuse.
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